This is Alanna's elimination chart. As you can see by this graph, toileting is not going well. It will drive you to drink. It's hard. And for us, it appears it is going nowhere. We don't think Alanna is getting it.
The most frustrating thing is that she is doing pretty well with her therapists. Just not with us. Except for a couple of really bad days she is getting 80-100% success in six hours of therapy time. It's the rest of the day she is not. Why is this? We suspect it's because therapy time is structured and Mom and Dad time is not. She is allowed to stim and then it's waterwork central. Even if we took her every ten minutes, she could still soil her pants.
Maybe she's just not ready?